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Meaning: (strictly)Whensituatedin aforeignplace, it iswisetofollowthelocalcustoms.1834, Thomas Staunton St. Clair,A Soldier's Recollections of the West Indies and America, with a Narrative of the Expedition to the Island of Walcheren, volume 1, London: Richard Bentley,page345:[…]but, as I seated myself at table, I thought how my friends in Scotland would stare to see stewed monkey, roasted mermaid, and a pepper-pot of macaws, set down on table for their repast. But my plan always has beenwhen in Rome to do as Rome does; and we found our food both delicate and cooked in such a manner, with every savoury spice, that it would have tickled the palate of the most fastidious gastronome.1846, “A Letter from Mehemet Ali to Ibrahim Pacha”, inPunch, or the London Charivari, volume11, London,page35:It will be observed that the document is written in the ordinary style of English correspondence, for Mehemet Ali endeavours to adopt European habits as far as he possibly can, and, aswhen in Romehe woulddo as Rome does, so his son, being in this country, is addressed as an Englishman.2003May 8, “Forget Asylum-Seekers: It's the People Inside Who Count”, inThe Economist:But it is hardly an act of hostility to make people improve their social or work skills; it happens to all schoolchildren. And to most of the native Dutch, this was simply a reasonable “when in Rome do as the Romans do”, and a recognition that this acculturation was not happening fast enough, but needed to be pushed.; (loosely,idiomatic)It iswisetoadaptto thecircumstances; it iswisetofollowcommoncustom.1842July, “The Opinion of the Apostle Peter Respecting Trifles”, in Barton W. Stone, editor,The Christian Messenger, volume12, number 9, Jacksonville, IL,page282:But my friend says, ‘when in Rome,we mustdo as Rome does,’ Ah! this is the very principle of an ungodly world; and Christians have caught the spirit, and are acting up to it. Peter and Paul were in Rome.—If they had done as Rome did, they would not have suffered death there. If we were in Rome, and must do as Rome does, we must become idolaters, and papists, or lose Rome's favor, and suffer her displeasure. But we must separate ourselves from Rome, and from the world, and their wicked and God-robbing practices. We must not be conformed to the world. We must be Christians in deed and in truth.1857, Austin Steward,Twenty-two Years a Slave, and Forty Years a Freeman; Embracing a Correspondence of Several Years, While President of Wilberforce Colony, London, Canada West, Rochester, NY: William Alling,page101:I know of many instances where such persons have been under the necessity of buying or hiring slaves, just to preserve their reputation and keep up appearances; and even among a class of people who profess to be opposed to Slavery, have I known instances of the same kind, and have heard them apologize for their conduct by saying that “when in Rome,we mustdo as the Romans do.”1873, J. W. Phelps, editor,Secret Societies, Ancient and Modern; an Outline of Their Rise, Progress, and Character with Respect to the Christian Religion and Republican Government, Chicago: Ezra A. Cook,page224:The good intentions of the individual cannot control the evil operations of an organization which is essentially wrong. Menwhen in Romeare aptto do as the Romans do, however evil it may be; and the member of a Lodge is not likely to remain for a long time better than the Lodge itself.
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